Talk:Neighbor/@comment-24.76.47.16-20100610174723

i have added over 30 neighbors since starting 3 days ago and only 3 neighbors appear on my list .. i have also expanded once for sure possibly twice already.. can you tell me why my neighbors that i have added and they have accepted do not apear for me?? and it tells me when i clcik on other peoples post that i cannot accept my own  promotion like xp 100 yet it is  someone elses.. very confused.. who can help me out/ : )